The first time I heard the introduction to the Lord’s Prayer
“And now, as our Savior Christ has taught us, we are bold to say” during the
service, I was puzzled. Is praying
bold? My Catholic friends talk about
being called “bold and brazen articles” by the nuns and ordered, “Present your
hand,” which the nun then hit with a ruler.
Bold was wearing short or tight skirts and calling boys. Bold was prank calling anyone. Bold was talking back to your parents or
teachers. Bold was kind of cool, even
if, like me, you weren’t bold enough to be bold.
(Don’t worry, this is not going to turn into one of those
annoying rants about much better the boomers were raised. I don’t think it’s true, and anyway, those
days are over.)
One place you certainly weren’t supposed to be bold was
church; you sat quietly and prayed silently.
And if you asked for something, you apologized first for asking.
We didn’t have problems asking our parents for things
(better known as Stuff, as in “You have enough Stuff.” or “Get your Stuff out
of here.”): toys, bikes, trips to the mall or Disneyworld, and later clothes,
money, and cars. We didn’t have problems
asking repeatedly, or even without ceasing.
Our parents would get tired of this, but it still didn’t stop us. They’d already said no, so how much could it
hurt to keep asking? Maybe we’d catch them
in a weak moment if we’d worn them out enough.
One of the most memorable things I’ve taken away from a
sermon was being told to ask boldly, not in a weeny-whiney voice, “Please God,
if it’s not too much trouble, would you mind . . .” I changed my way of asking
for things. I don’t know if I’ve had
more prayers answered since then; I
didn’t think I’d be writing about it, so I didn’t keep track. But I feel better about asking.
If we are going to be bold about asking for things, maybe it
will lead us to be bold in other things.
We can pray for improvements and we can be bold enough to try to do
something about them. And we can pray
for the boldness to do it. (Of course
sometimes all we can do is pray. But
prayer itself, as I have learned, is a bold act.)
When was the last time you did something bold? Did you give money to a beggar when you were
with a disapproving friend? Cheer when
you heard another state is allowing gay marriage? Work as a volunteer in a political campaign,
maybe even knock on doors? Say that Pope
Francis has come a long way, but he still has a long way to go?
And, lest I sound too goody-goody, occasionally, let’s be
bold in asking for Stuff.
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