Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Our Circus, Our Monkeys, Our Selves

 
 
 

One of the things the Episcopal Church says about itself is that it is “a big tent.”   As Paul M. Spellings writes in his blog (http://paulmspellings.wordpress.com) that means “we like to see ourselves as almost obsessively accepting.” (“Big Tent Church:  Possibility and Hypocrisy” February 6, 2014)  Everyone is welcome and everyone is part of the church:  people of all races, ages, nationalities, sexual preferences, those with disabilties, the poor, the homeless, and even the rich.  At least this is the ideal.
(I did not give that last sentence its own paragraph, because this is not about the failure of the church and of individuals to live up to the ideal.  We are trying, if not always successfully.)
When I first saw the phrase, I thought of the tents of the Israelites.  But those tents, even if large, were not inclusive.  And then I thought of a circus tent.
For what are religion and Christian life if not a circus? 
We can look at the circus metaphor in two ways (probably more, but I haven’t thought of them yet.)  A circus is a place of wonder, full of miracles where people fly through the air, twist themselves into unimaginable shapes, and squeeze themselves and a dozen friends into tiny cars.  There are beautiful costumes, processions, and music.    Does that remind you of anything?  (Not the flying, twisting, or car loading, at least in my experience.)  There is manmade magic in the circus and God-made magic in the church.
Then there is another meaning of circus, the half humorous chaos that inspires us to sigh and say, “That was a real circus.”  I’m thinking particularly of getting the family off to school and work in the morning, creating the best Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, or Halloween ever, or going on vacation, when a day at the beach is no day at the beach.  Your whole life can be one big circus.  And it doesn’t stop after the children are grown!
And isn’t church life one big circus?  Not just the Churchianity, worrying about roofs and furnaces, and pageants and candles, but the Christianity, too.  How can we best love God, our neighbors, and ourselves, especially when the church offers so many ways to do it and so many opinions on each way?
Not only do all kinds of people make up the church, but they bring with them all kinds of beliefs.  My small church contains creationists and literalists.   There are those who say that Bible is allegory and symbolism.  And, of course, there are the different tastes in worship.
How do we handle this?  (I apologize if this sounds like a sermon.  What I am really trying to do here is show my struggles with the circus, not offer any suggestions or solutions.)
There is an old Polish saying, (I found it on Facebook) “Not my circus.  Not my monkeys.” That can be very helpful when it comes to feuds with distant relatives or office politics or just as a reminder to stay out of other people’s business.  But how does it work in the Big Tent?
It can be easy to say which things are not your circus.  Creationism isn’t mine.  Neither is the Rapture.  My laissez faire attitude about theology is not the circus of some of my friends.  And other denominations and other religions aren’t our circuses either.
But aren’t we all each other’s monkeys?  Under the big circus tent we are to love and care for each other, even if we disagree.  We can ignore or celebrate differences because as Christians we share more similarities.  And this goes for those outside the tent, too.
 There are many circuses inside and outside the big tent.  We don’t need to claim them all.  But we do need to claim all those monkeys.
 
 
 


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