Mother Angelica, the 92 year old nun
who founded the Eternal Word Television Network in her convent's
garage with $200.00, died (or went home to the Lord) on Easter.
Although I disagreed with a lot of her views (reproductive rights,
LGBT rights, marriage equality, redemptive suffering and probably
more), I liked her. She was a funny and folksy and feisty and
preached about Jesus's love and God's plan for us.
Several Catholic and former Catholic
friends did not like her. Some don't care for folksy and feisty, but
especially don't care for her conservative religious views. And of
course they had mean nun stories about being hit with yardsticks,
kneeling on rice, being ordered to “present your hand” so it
could be hit with a ruler, even having their heads slammed against
the wall. One joked that Mother A. was probably given a golden
yardstick when she got to heaven.
Growing up Presbyterian I did not have
the Mean Nun Experience. My idea a nun was Ingrid Bergman in The
Bells of St. Mary's. The first conversation I ever had with a nun occurred when I was in my thirties and was a
Weight Watchers lecturer. We talked about food, not theology.
I did find that mean nun stories were good icebreakers at parties and in bars.Years later, a friend told me that a friend of his, after meeting me at a party, said I reminded him of an former nun. I don't know what she meant (probably not a compliment), but I thought it was hilarious.
After promising God that if she
recovered from a spine operation she would build a monastery, she and
other nuns started a fishing lure business, which paid for the
monastery in a suburb of Birmingham, Alabama. In 1981, she launched
EWTN.
It's difficult to know what to think
about a basically good, likable person who has some bad, even
terrible ideas. But I have agreed to disagree with so many people
that I can handle it. (I am a lot of things, but not feisty. I
don't know if I'm bragging or complaining about this.)
So I've put Mother Angelica on my list
of “Nice People Who Are Dead Wrong About Some Things”, where she
joins blogger Hement Mehta,The
Friendly Atheist, Pope Francis and my religiously and politically
conservative friends.
(You can read more about Mr. Mehta in my
blog post “The Slacker in the Stroller” March 20, 2014 and view
him and Mother Angelica on YouTube.)